17 04 2011

Washing machine rental now up

I was hoping for a long morning alone with my writing. But instead I got to help clean up a flooded bathroom and attempt to fix the washing machine that hit it’s planned obsolescence date today. Mark thinks the pump cracked.

We bought an expensive washer 3 years ago thinking naively that if we paid a lot for a good brand it would last longer than the cheaper model we’d bought 3 years before that.

Nope. This time, if the repairs cost more than the cheapest model we can buy we are going out and buying the cheap, no frills model. At least that way in 2014 we will have paid less on our rental.

In 2008, we did all this research, but the reality is that washing machine reviewers don’t have 3 years to evaluate a machine. So they really don’t know if they will last a reasonable amount of time. And no, I don’t think 3 years is reasonable. We had the same washing machine my entire childhood with a family of four. My three-year-old son has seen two machines die in this house! (Yes, the last one died about two weeks after he was born!)

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17 02 2011

Help! How do you keep a toddler awake?

Our current process with our son goes like this:

  1. wake up between 7am and 8:30am
  2. play hard all morning
  3. lie down around noon for around 15 minutes, but don’t fall asleep
  4. play hard all afternoon until about 4pm
  5. fall asleep hard, and nap for an hour to two hours
  6. play hard until mom is exhausted (any time after 10pm) and then lie in bed fighting with her because he’s not tired at all

8 hours of sleep is barely enough for me, and I’m not convinced it’s enough for him.

We have determined that if we can get him to stay awake at 4pm he’ll go to bed and sleep around 7:30 or 8pm. But that period from around 4pm until 6pm is killer. We can’t seem to keep him awake. He has fallen asleep while eating, while playing, watching a movie, reading a book, and more. We then shake him (gently), talk to him, carry him around (hard when he weighs nearly 60 pounds), try to get him to play, and nothing wakes him. Yesterday he fell asleep on the couch, and when we told him we were going to feed the animals (a chore he loves to do) he woke up enough to say “I want feed animals” and then he was asleep again, and continuing threats did not wake him again.

Any suggestions? How do you keep a toddler awake when he doesn’t want to be so that he will sleep when we want him to be asleep? I’m desperate (and tired).

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Posted in Annoyances, Health, Jaryth

14 02 2011

Honestly, are “content farms” really that bad?

The most common complaint I see about content farms is that they serve up lousy information written by under-paid (or non-paid) writers. I can join the ranks of people who will tell you of the lousy results they found on eHow (or insert your other favorite content farm to bash) here. Yes, I don’t like doing a search for “how to build a web page” and getting a result that says, essentially: step 1. build a web page, step 2. put it on the internet. step 3. there’s no step 3!

But I am equally tired of the writers saying “I make a living writing and they are turning writing into a commodity!” And other such statements. Guess what, Virginia, writing has always been considered something anyone can do – and as such paid as little as possible for. Yes, every writer I know, including myself, recognizes that writing is hard. To get up in the morning, stumble to the computer and stare at that blank screen is a fate all writers share. To know that you may or may not get paid a living wage for whatever pearls make it to that screen puts even more pressure on. And to then go out and read about how some moron was paid 3 cents to write the above “article” on how to build a web page is both depressing and demeaning. Some days, I start thinking that I should just start writing tutorials that are that meaningless (and I’m sure some of my “fans” would argue that I already do…). After all, that “tutorial” took me longer to think up than it did to write.

But ultimately I believe in market forces (says the woman who has been known to rant for hours, yes hours, on the evils of laissez faire capitalism). If the content that is created by these under- and non-paid writers is lousy people won’t read them. And if it gets too bad, people won’t visit the sites that generate them. Then the sites won’t make any money and they will either focus on getting more non-paid writers to flood the internet with crap or they will come around to the idea that paying good writers something slightly more than peanuts is a way to get better quality content. Personally, I am hesitant when a search result feeds up an eHow or wikipedia article. Not because the writers are underpaid but because I’ve found the content to be less than stellar.

And the other thing to think about: how much are you paying for the content that you read? I have friends who are proud of the fact that they view all websites with ad blockers on. Others that refuse to pay any subscription fees for content. And others who think that buying a book that was “just their blog posts” is tantamount to complete idiocy. I had a discussion with my brother a while ago where he told me he didn’t want to work with a money manager because “they just want more money”. And I thought, “well, sure, who doesn’t?” I mean seriously, how can one complain that writers aren’t being paid enough when you aren’t willing to pay them yourself? I buy and read over 100 (probably closer to 200) books per year. I have donated to websites and blogs that I find valuable, and do so every year. In this case, I think paying it forward means literally paying. And I’m okay with that, because if I like a writer I want them to keep writing so I buy their books.

And another thought: what makes Wikipedia so damn popular and “content farms” so not? I have found the content on Wikipedia to be just as questionable as eHow. And the writers there aren’t paid, in fact every year the Wikipedia founder asks them to pay him! But that’s a rant for another day.

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Posted in Annoyances, Writing

26 10 2010

Do you know what a top ten list is?

I got an email yesterday from someone who wrote (paraphrased):

“I read your top 10 list of best web editors, and it was interesting. I use ___ editor, and I was wondering if there was a better one than it available.”

Really?

The editor he mentioned was not on the list.

I honestly don’t know what to tell him. I mean, seriously, if his editor was not on the list (and it does qualify to be on that list – it’s free and it’s for Windows), then chances are, I believe that all ten editors on that list are better than the one he named.

The only thing I can think is that he doesn’t understand what a “Top 10” list is.

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Posted in Annoyances, Email, Humorous

25 10 2010

Some days it doesn’t pay to take a vacation

I decided last Thursday to take some time off from my About.com site (and clearly I still am…) because I was tired of HTML editors, didn’t want to talk CSS, wasn’t interested in updating old pages, wanted to finish a project for my art class, and was upset about a change in pay and how they tried to spin it to make it sound like it was chocolate-coated bad news. (It’s not really that bad of news, it’s just annoying how staff feels the need to spin things. Just be honest with us, most of us are grown ups, we can take it without the chocolate coating.)

Anyway…

So I arrived at my desk this morning chipper and eager to get back to work, or at least not as burnt out, and found:

  • 11 CW articles I have to edit and post
  • 49 (or more) HTML editors to review
  • 4 show and tell articles to edit and post
  • 8 long user reviews to edit and post
  • 64 broken links
  • 61 unread emails
  • 1 newsletter to write
  • 1 article to write
  • unknown numbers of old articles I need to update and redirect with a redirect tool that is broken until later this week

At least with the last one I know I can’t do it because the tool is broken.

What I want to work on: 1 article

What I need to work on: 1 newsletter

What I feel guilty if I don’t work on: 11 CW articles

What I would like to finish: 49 HTML editor reviews

What helps the site if I do: 12 user generated content files (show and tell articles and long user reviews) and fixing broken links and answering email

I guess that clarifies things for me. First I’ll please myself, then do what I need to do, then appease my guilt, then if there’s time do the editors, UGC, and site management.

Wow, I should write a whiny post every time I feel overwhelmed!

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